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Topic: Another Employee Problem......and it wasn't my fault :)
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Dominic Espinosa
Phenomenal Film Handler

Posts: 1172
From: California, U.S.A.
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted 03-17-2005 01:52 PM
The problem in a lot of management teams is the lack of communication and lack of uniformity. More than once I've put my foot down on issues like proper clothing for projectionists to wear to work, etc. only to be litteraly laughed at and overruled by the GM. And what does this mean? It means that I, or anyone else in my shoes will be respected that much less by their subordinates. And it shows.
Moreover, I've found that the first step should always be to ask the employee in question what he/she feels his job is, and why he/she feels his behavior is warranted/acceptable. You've then got to explain what your job is in a non-combative way. Follow it up with the question of "what can we do within reason to resolve this conflict?". You're a negotiator okay, you've got to come half way sometimes and do what you can to solve the problem. Now when it comes down to things like wages, which I recently had a problem with a projectionist feeling he was undervalued. Again, he/she has to understand the other point of view; how can the company justify giving someone a raise when they're not showing that they're worth it?
Moreover, steer clear of combative statements and questions. Questions like "how many times have I told you..." are combative statements. You don't really want to know the answer, and it puts them on the defensive and closes up the conversation.
Read a good management book, it's worth the time. I recommend "Becoming a successful manager" ISBN: 0658014897. It's not the best and won't cover a few things, but it's a good start.
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Jim Ziegler
Jedi Master Film Handler
Posts: 753
From: West Hollywood, CA
Registered: Jul 99
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posted 03-18-2005 03:48 AM
quote: Richard Greco He was playing the video games on the clock while I was counting money. He picked up a game and dropped it because he lost a quarter in it.
You should have let him go right then and there.. Do you want him picking up and dropping the lamphouses if the bulb won't strike? If you see major character flaws in an employee that early on, don't waste your time or effort - find someone else.
quote: Richard Greco He asked for 4:30. I agreed.
Richard, if you are going to put your foot down, stick to your guns. If you want him there at 4, tell him 4 and end the conversation. You have now communicated that you will back down if he whines.
quote: Richard Greco He then told me "Well YOU use YOUR cell Phone!!". I have a company phone and I use it occasionally at work to handle an issue here and there with other management. I told him it was a company phone and that it was different.
Rather than argue, restate your instruction as clear as possible. This kid understands the disticntion, he just wanted to argue. Don't give him the argument he wants.
quote: Richard Greco I figure he should've asked me to open the door by now, but no sign of him. I walked outside and called his name. No answer. I walked over to my main booth to get some candy and saw him sitting on a picnic table on his cell phone..on the clock!! I told him, "Maybe I should adjust your clock in time to 5:15 since you havent been seen and have that phone glued to your ear" (he'd been warned before BTW)
Richard, you shoudl have unlocked the door for him right then and there. If you want respect from your staff, you must give them respect as well. "Sit here until I have time for you" isn't going to make your staff respect you. If his duties were in the booth, and he was waiting on you to give him access, then what did you want him to be doing?
quote: Richard Greco Me: "You need to get off that phone and get to work, you should've found me and asked what to do."
He did ask you. You ignored him while you did something else.
quote: Richard Greco it was his day off, but to send the projectionist home and come in tomorrow to talk. I told the projectionist this and he said "Fine, I'll clock out, but I want the GM's number." The gM was ok with me giving the number. The projectionist then left...
Again, you gave in when he wanted to argue... If you tell an employee to leave, and they refuse, call your security and have them walk the person off. By giving in to his "talk to the GM" demand, you showed him a lot of weakness.
quote: Richard Greco He just has horrible social skills. From my experience, you just don't tell your manage that he NEEDS to stop his attitude. He doesn't NEED to do anything.
Actually, Richard, there is plenty you need to do. The biggest thing is to lead your staff - I saw no leadership in your account of the incident.
quote: Richard Greco I have noted to the GM what has been happening and also a 17 y/o female employee told me tonight that he was bumping into her and harassing her this past weekend.
What are your chain's policies regarding sexual harrassment complaints? Letting this one go will get the company and YOU sued.
quote: Richard Greco I hope he gets fired.
Then fire him already...
quote: Richard Greco Some other enployees say he acts like a girl. He also said to that 17/yo girl (One of my best employees) "Listen, Little Girl" When she told him to stop bothering her.
Acts like a girl? What? Are you joining in the employee bitch sessions? There is a like Richard between staff and management. If you cross that line, you are useless as a manager because your staff will walk all over you.
quote: William......HUH? English pleasE? [Smile]
I believe he was analyzing you Richard. Although, AFAIK, William doesn't have the professional qualifications necessary to do so. This isn't the first time he has played shrink...
quote: Floyd Justin Newton When are you going to grow up and act like an adult.
One could ask you the same question, Floyd...
quote: Floyd Justin Newton The things you post on this forum "can" be construed as "libal".
Great.. First the armchair shrink, now an armchair ambulance chaser.. Floyd, nothing he posted was libelous.
quote: Richard Greco On a side note, The GM had a talk with him today and tonight he was turned around 180 degrees. He was well behaved and I also tried a different approach to his training.
Richard, you need to SERIOUSLY re-examine your management style.. And your GM needs his head checked for allowing this joker to stay.
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William Hooper
Phenomenal Film Handler
Posts: 1879
From: Mobile, AL USA
Registered: Jun 99
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posted 03-18-2005 07:20 AM
quote: Jim Ziegler I believe he was analyzing you Richard. Although, AFAIK, William doesn't have the professional qualifications necessary to do so. This isn't the first time he has played shrink..
Jim's assessment is correct. To be a psychiatrist or a psychologist, you need a PhD & a license to practice, & I have neither. Psychology is the 2nd job I decided I didn't want after spending too much time on it - people who start on the health professions need to FIRST ask themselves, "Do you want to spend the rest of your life with sick, miserable people?"
I've never "played shrink". You want a psychologist or psychiatrist, call & make an appointment with one. Ask a bunch of strangers what they think, about your network hookup, car, or whatever, & they give you an answer based on whatever their own experience & education are. Take it for what it's worth, & be critical of it all.
I agree with most of what Jim Zeigler said, & still think that much of the problem is inexperience, & that's not having learned how to communicate clearly & on a non-hostile level with folks, how authority is structured in the workplace, & a lot of lack of objectivity about yourself & others. Don't beat yourself up, just do what everyone else does & recognize that you've got to find a more effective way to approach a problem when results matter. I wish I could just send home or fire every piece of equipment that was broken & I couldn't fix on my first hunch, but the fact is in management, talent, design, sales, or tech, you've got to figure out HOW you will make it work & make it work.
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