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Topic: Are you "out" at work? -> OT Weight Loss
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Chris Hipp
Phenomenal Film Handler

Posts: 1462
From: Mesquite, Tx (east of Dallas)
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted 08-06-2004 04:29 AM
Well first off, I am not gay at all. As for the gay issue, I think it should jsut be dont ask dont tell. Do what you want (straight or gay) but it shouldnt be advertised and forced in everyones faces. I dont like "PDA" at all and I think all of that should go on behind closed doors. All that stuff should be kept private, gay or straight.
Now as far as this loner issue goes, I can relate. I hate going out and doing stuff. Even worse I hate being around tons of people I dont know. I really dont keep friends because they always want to bug me about doing stuff. I prefer to have people that you talk to maybe once a week or so and occasionally do stuff together, after that it just gets annoying. I would much rather work, stay at home and read or watch a movie or something. Of course, you have to keep arrangements set up with the females, that is just a bodily function that has to be taken care of. Now I dont jsut sit around all day and eat fried chicken and watch Dr Phil, I wouldnt suggest anyone do that, but I hate how people think you dont have a life jsut becasue you dont go out to clubs and bars and whatnot.
As for the fat issue, well, I am by no means fat but I am going bald and people liek to make fun of me but I just go " yeah, so who cares" that usually puts an end to it. If you dont let it get to you then t hey will do as Michael said and go find a weaker person to make fun of.
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Steve Kraus
Film God

Posts: 4094
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: May 2000
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posted 08-06-2004 09:28 AM
John Nash was the fellow depicted in the book and movie A Beautiful Mind.
I stole this from here.
quote: When the 21-year old John Nash wrote his 27-page dissertation outlining his "Nash Equilibrium" for strategic non-cooperative games, the impact was enormous. On the formal side, his existence proof was one of the first applications of Kakutani's fixed-point theorem later employed with so much gusto by Neo-Walrasians everywhere; on the conceptual side, he spawned much of the literature on non-cooperative game theory which has since grown at a prodigious rate - threatening, some claim, to overwhelm much of economics itself.
When the young Nash had applied to graduate school at Princeton in 1948, his old Carnegie Tech professor, R.J. Duffin, wrote only one line on his letter of recommendation: "This man is a genius". It was at Princeton that Nash encountered the theory of games, then recently launched by John von Neumann and Oskar Morgenstern. However, they had only managed to solve non-cooperative games in the case of "pure rivalries" (i.e. zero-sum). The young Nash turned to rivalries with mutual gain. His trick was the use of best-response functions and a recent theorem that had just emerged - Kakutani's fixed point-theorem. His main result, the "Nash Equilibrium", was published in 1950 in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. He followed this up with a paper which introduced yet another solution concept - this time for two-person cooperative games - the "Nash Bargaining Solution" (NBS) in 1950. A 1951 paper attached his name to yet another side of economics - this time, the "Nash Programme", reflecting his methodological call for the reduction of all cooperative games into a non-cooperative framework.
His contributions to mathematics were no less remarkable. As an undergraduate, he had inadvertently (and independently) proved Brouwer's fixed point theorem. Later on, he went on to break one of Riemann's most perplexing mathematical conundrums. From then on, Nash provided breakthrough after breakthrough in mathematics.
In 1958, on the threshold of his career, Nash got struck by paranoid schizophrenia. He lost his job at M.I.T. in 1959 (he had been tenured there in 1958 - at the age of 29) and was virtually incapicated by the disease for the next two decades or so. He roamed about Europe and America, finally, returning to Princeton where he became a sad, ghostly character on the campus - "the Phantom of Fine Hall" as Rebecca Goldstein described him in her novel, Mind-Body Problem.
The disease began to evaporate in the early 1970s and Nash began to gradually to return to his work in mathematics. However, Nash himself associated his madness with his living on an "ultralogical" plane, "breathing air too rare" for most mortals, and if being "cured" meant he could no longer do any original work at that level, then, Nash argued, a remission might not be worthwhile in the end.
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Leo Enticknap
Film God

Posts: 7474
From: Loma Linda, CA
Registered: Jul 2000
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posted 08-06-2004 01:41 PM
quote: Bruce McGee Try being the oldest person at work... by about 15 years.
Also, try being the only person at work who is not married and bringing up a young family. As a result of being in this situation I'm starting to get seriously offpissed at the widespread belief that having children gives someone the de facto right to behave selfishly towards, and place unreasonable demands on, colleagues who don't. To be fair, that's not everybody. In particular, I have one colleague with a three year-old who works tremendously hard to ensure that his family commitments don't get in the way of doing his job (no small feat, as he's looking after elderly parents as well as the child), and if he does ever ask for help over and beyond the call of duty, you know there's a genuine and unavoidable reason. But he really is the exception which proves the rule.
Throughout my working career I've had to deal with many colleagues - mostly women, it has to be said - who believe that their offspring allows them the expectation of being treated as gods and the right to treat others like dirt. There are exceptions to this rule too, but I have found it to be a rule. Having been bought up in a single-parent family myself I know that this attitude is selfish and unnecessary, and a result of the women in my generation having been bought up to believe that they have a plethora of rights but no responsibilities to go with them. If I ever get married and have children myself I wouldn't be able to sleep at night if I took some of the liberties which my colleagues have done on the pretext of family commitments.
Oh, and if that isn't enough, you could also try being the only person at work who does not hold extreme left-wing political beliefs... but for obvious reasons we won't go there.
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Tony Bandiera Jr
Film God

Posts: 3067
From: Moreland Idaho
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted 08-06-2004 01:49 PM
Wow, where did this thread come out of the closet from?
Now it's my turn: I've been out for many years, it was the manager and his boyfriend at one of my theatres who told me "For God's sakes, everybody knows already! So just come out." And I did. I'd known myself since I was 11, but was too chicken to admit it.
I guess the biggest surprise was, all during my motocross days, virtually everyone knew and didn't care. Even when I worked as a race official up north, no one cared. Some riders thought of me as their gay older brother!!
Regardless of orientation thogh, I do believe that PDA should not happen in the workplace. Save it for dates and time at home!
I also respect those who think that being gay is "wrong". Sure it is, for them. I don't bag on heteros because they like girls. But a news flash for everyone: doesn't matter what you like, relationship issues are EXACTLY the same with any couple, the ONLY difference is the mechanics of the !!
Every one of us is unique in many ways, that's what makes meeting new people so rewarding! So it really shouldn't matter where you dip your wick, as long as you respect others in your actions.
Now for some fun: Can y'all guess how old I really am? Hint: My member pic is old, look closely at the bike to guess the year. I was 29 when that pic was taken!
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